Thursday, December 20, 2012

4th day to go Xmas

So fast..
1more day going to be 21.12.2012
World end?
Or just weather change?

I'm looking forward as this will be my first time travel alone to KL.
hopefully everything goes well ;)

Wanna share my recent daily activities..

December is a month of season greeting. I attended high school friend wedding & also my brother wedding. House is full of people & joy.

I have the chance to groom up myself, make it difference, smile more & talk more.

I lost weight, I lost things but I gain more than I lost.

I have great BFF companion, my parents concern, siblings care & also my god-bro.. They let me know that I'm still the little princess in the house. ^^

Joy to myself that I'm alive ;)
La la la ...

#1. Leg get swallow because wearing 5ich heel & also kena pijak by sis.

#2. Eeyore company while waiting someone.

#3 souvenir & Xmas gift from boss

#4 BFF that groom me & make me look gorgeous lady of the night..;)







Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Naive

Being childish is the happiest moment...


Sunday, November 25, 2012

November

So fast.. Going end of November soon.

I been procrastinate again. What had I done? I work really hard & put effort in my work but.. I still have trouble of communicate with my boss. Work still new maintain, yet I don't hv source income. How am I going to sustain my life.

Ppl use to said 'where there's a way, there 's a will". Where is the will? Back to reality , everything is talk about money. I'm not realistic but face the truth of reality. Some more I know myself well, I don't have saving. How I going sustain?

Too much thing come at a time.
First is my braces, doc said I might can de-braces for my next appointment but I need settle my balance.
Second, baby blue going to be 1 year old. I need settle insurance, car road tax & maintenance fee for coming service.

Personal finance, how to manage my own finance? Im so failure. I need idea to save & generate money.

Sighs.. Rambling again. I should work out not rambling.

Monday, November 12, 2012

我不是圣人、只是个普通人、有七情六欲、有感受、有自觉、有擦觉.

每当我努力放下也顺其自然时、就有考验和阻碍、我掉泪不是我弱而是我真的累了、不想活在哪个阴影。

我一定要活的跟美丽!
爱哭就哭、哭完就要勇敢面对!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

The 3rd months

I'm still adapting it. & learn to let it go. I'm not sinner yet angelic, just a normal human being.

Learning to be more independent & strong. I pray, I cry, I smile, I slake, I laugh, I think, I do yet.. Still the same of me..

God, pls gv me strength to keep on moving forward..

Friday, November 2, 2012

Zzz

我又失眠了。
为何呢?

Monday, October 29, 2012

;)

The journey is still faraway..
Not matter how tiring or how sad, look at the people in third countries, I'm far lucky and happiness them.

I should keep on moving without hesitate & complain. Life still goes on.

再这么辛苦或累、只要给自己一个十分钟休息大脑和小脑、过后再接再厉的往前冲!

加油!

Sunday, October 28, 2012

妈妈

世上只有妈妈好、
要妈的孩子象个宝。

这首歌、真的真的好多感触。
今晚送妈咪到火车站时、不知不觉眼泪掉了看她一人塔火车回去。

过去这三天和她两人及姐姐去了度假、让我安抚她、开导她、作弄她、分享。真的好快乐也很感恩。

真希望妈咪能感受到。和看开一些。

我的刘妈妈

Thursday, October 25, 2012

十月

在不到一个月的时间、家里最亲的已离我们去跟快乐的人地方和解脱病痛的恶魔。

从六伯到大舅母然后啊姨。

看到他们一个一个的离别,真的让我学到"人生无常"。

真的是要活在当下、不要再执着不属于我。虽然会心痛,但这一却会过去。
不要在让父母担心、亲人操心也让自己烦心。

凡事都的是,干嘛不要好好和认真去做好它。眼泪爱哭就让它哭、因为哭是你舒解压力也是你一直以来自我表达方式、干嘛要在意它或别人这么说。
人是有感情、不是冷血动物。

不知不觉,我又熬过了两个礼拜。

还记得那晚帮啊姨念佛经、眼泪不知不觉想开水龙头一直流、简单的佛经和字语有这么深的意义、让我有开窍了一些想法。

是我自要发泄还是真的领悟到它的意识呢?我也不知。

只知妈咪很担心我会变成尼姑、也叫了姑姑来安慰我、也被姑姑训了我一顿,。我是健康的少吃和多运动才瘦的不是为了他。为何没人相信呢? 我真的不想再让父母为我操心、也跟不想自我放弃。

简单和自足是我最想要的和学习。

感恩、我又或多了一天。

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Open your heart

Open my heart, accept who I am. Accept what had happened.
Accept the day had passed.
Accept everything that god had prepared for me.
Accept the reality of the world.

Open my heart to accept his apologise and let him go.
So that I able sleep well and tight;)

I'm glad that I move a step forward today.

感恩

Sunday, October 14, 2012

医院

今天感触满多。
我自己一人踏出第一步,一人到医院去看阿姨。

虽然,不是很大不了的事但我真的踏第一步了。一人去医院。一人去看阿姨。路途经过很多不一样的路,经过rumah mayat时,心里好害怕。也不知怕什么。就这样无走乱走到阿姨的病房。

看见阿姨和开姐才松了一下。
还以为自己很坚强不会哭、要以开朗的心情去看阿姨。谁知、还没叫阿姨、泪水已掉。真没用的我。还让老人家担心、虽然阿姨话不多,但我知道她不要我们为她操心和烦恼。

当路途回家时,一人又在车上哭的稀里哗啦,也不知哭的是好是坏。爱哭就这样哭了。

原来失去了他,令我得的跟多。不只是家人,朋友,姐妹,信心,自足,明
朗,一点开通,独立和最重要的是活在当下和珍惜。

父母的养育,是我的福气,姐妹的关怀及照顾是我福分。

感恩、我又活了一天也领悟了那么多。

Saturday, October 13, 2012

爸爸的女儿

古人说"女儿是爸爸前世的女朋友"。这句话说的真好。

我家老爸是典型的传统男人,不善于表达或关心。但只能从他某些动作才能知他是关心我们的。


近来,发生了很多事。
爸爸虽然没开口问我是好是坏,但从他摸些动作,已表达他对我的关心。

虽然不是从他口中说出,但已很满足了也很高兴他知道我在过这怎样的日子。

妈妈也付出了很多爱与关心。要我准时吃和好好的睡,不要弄坏身体要照顾好身体。

这么多爱我的人,不断的鼓励我,陪伴我,支持我,提醒我,帮助我,这么大的恩惠,我应该好好的活在当下和把握去珍惜我所拥有的。虽然,心动上的表达是最实际但不是一天就能见效,是需要一些时间,需要去感受和发觉。

感恩,我又活多一天也过的很充实。;)

Sunday, October 7, 2012

凡人

凡人就是活在人间的平凡人。
好听就叫凡人,难听就是烦人。
每天为了生活去烦。

人的欲望永远照成烦恼和贪念。

人来人走,有生必有离。
这两个礼拜看透太多生死离别,但愿来的是快乐,走的是解脱的快乐。


凡事看开一点,或许会跟快乐或开心一些。

Thursday, September 27, 2012

苦海无边,回头是岸

这是我选择让你走。
苦海,是个选择不是一定。

Monday, September 24, 2012

Breath

I feel very hard to breath.
Help..

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Me

Just learn something about myself recently.

I like take self-portrait in front my hp
Camera. Can take pictures as many as like nobody business.

But when I'm standing in front mirror learning yoga or Zumba dance, I felt self low-esteem.
I not dare look straight forward to mirror.

Do I sick or is minded prob?

My face getting sharper look not chubby like last time. In other meaning I'm looking more 'chan' aka old look.

I want maintain healthy look not pale.. How to achieve healthy mind & spirit ?

Saturday, September 8, 2012

3rd days

Is the third days, we didn't spoke either text.
Emotion still unstable but life still need goes on..

Mummy called but didn't answer but heart telling me something happen. Should call her tomorrow to check out what had happen.

Friday, August 24, 2012

Low self-esteem

Where should I begin.
Here is the place where I update most whenever I'm the down mood. I wrote yet did consider about other people feeling.
Everything I did, I need consider the impact of pros & cons. Should be said is cons more than pro. My mind set in a wrong way to protect myself.

This causes me driven to a corner where I not dare to face the reality. Is seen had causes me like bk way to breath.

Can I solve matter like my friend said "大事发小,小事发无"

A very deep knowledge for me to learn. I need leave out from my comfort zone, learn be more independent & more to decision maker.

I must act an adult an act like an adult, else I won't have a priority talk in the family or build up my self-confidence.

Why should I worry thing that already happen and make myself unhappy?

To be happy or not is a matter of urself to choose. Nobody can force u.

I need strength and also guidance..

To me love and family is everything till I forgot myself and always dependent on them. I respect their decision more than my own decision. Some may think is a filial, but not that way. I should think and analysis which is good and bad to them.

I need some time to adjust my attitude.
God, pls give me some strength!
I want 正能量!

不顾一切,让它来就来,随去而去.
我不是圣人,只是个不通人。

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Workout

Walk mate journal (Apps from SE W980i)
7/8/2012 = Jog for 8mins but walk abt 20min (havent started use the apps)
8/8/2012 = 900++ steps (evening jog)
9/8/2012 = 1.5k++ steps (morn & evening jog)
12/8/2012 = 2.6k++ steps (evening jog)
15/8/2012 = 3026 steps (morn & evening jog)

I use my old SE walkman phone to be my companion for workout & also my journal recording.

Normally, i will go jogging in the evening after work ard 630pm++.. Due to the traffic, some time may reach home late. So is not safety to jog that time. Till last week i wake up with crazy idea where I set my alarm to 7am morn. Then wash up wear my sport cloths & went to jogging for 20mins.

It's feel great jog in the morning time with fresh & less car on the road. I sweat more than jogging in evening time. Another benefit jogging is morning time is, I didnt feel sleepy when working.

I did google-ed around topic of jogging & walking this exercise.Then also safety when jogging. And another concern matter is about the breast. I'm not showing off but just saying the fact that I had big breast. Is very hard and inconvenience for me to jog without a proper or good bra to support it's when jogging..

I dont want my breast look saggy like old aunty with my current age but in the same time also dilemma whether I should stop or continue back to jogging. This is the main problem. Sighs...

I also seek advice from a friend like to jogging. Below is her golden advise to me:
a. Knee guard. The most important things to wear when jogging to protect our legs.
b. Take more calcium food to supply energy when jogging
c. Warm up before start jog to avoid cramp
d. SLOW run dont rush.
e. Go swimming is better option than running. LOL

I also wish to go back swimming but here dont have the facility. Why last time I have so many sports cells in my body but nowadays all become lazy cells. Something goes wrong on my body.

Let's end with a song which is my current favourite :





Monday, August 13, 2012

Muka 2 Ringgit

Recently a friend commented me :
Your face is muka 2 ringgit, mau tak mau only 2 faces. Simple easy mind to read. A bit 傻白傻白。 and also fragile like stock made from China. Harga murah so kena hati2 sikit cause is FRAGILE!

Ain't it true?

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Pyssla

Is weekend, a free day where i can slow down my path walk do whatever things I like. Finally, I manage get the pyslla bread from my friend who help me bought it from Ikea SG. :)

Is a kid game but kinda challenge to me as I'm a failure in art class person. But with the advance tech, wooh la, Internet is the best friend & the mentor for me to learn and do.

Let's picture talk:


#1 Pyssla beads & the tools or known as plat & also wax paper that not included in

#2 colourful beads.

#3 when I going finish the beads?

#4 first attempt - Mario or mushroom?

#5 over iron cause the look 'cacat'

#6 Rainbow below the wax paper

#7 my second successful item - Rainbow

#8 some where over the rainbow...

#9 third - Super G

#10 The drafts of the Mcqueen from Cars

#11 The drafts of the Mcqueen from Cars- straight look

#12 after ironing.

#13 vroom vroom..

#14 close up look

Mcqueen is specially do for my nephew who is car maniac that collect many cars. 

Still have many thoughts in my mind, but ..... hard to share it here as my mind still not in the clear state. I need other things to distract my mind now. Else, miss emo will come to find me again.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

寻找自我

我是谁?
是否我有曾想过我想做什么还是想要做怎样的人。
我有认真过每一天生活还是每天糊里糊涂的过呢?

我。。
我是谁?

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

08.08.2012

Two presents that I gain today

#1 a scratch from my nail.. Causes a scar on my leg.. So scare my little nail

#2 I kneel down on office carpet when sorting & filing all the documents. (wear skirt so can't sit down)

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Bye SK II


Thanks for the companion.. & thanks to the bf that got me this..
















Maybe I'm not loyal user.. So it doesn't show any affect to my face.. Sayonara

New lesson.

Quote from the read
"去做自己喜欢的事或能令自己开心的事。别再一昧委屈自己了自己。要学会疼爱自己,才有能力爱别人。"

Monday, August 6, 2012

The consequences

Pic talk. & moral of the story, don't be like hamburger for more than a day

Monday, July 30, 2012

Short bread from UK

Souvenir from bf's dad ;)

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Sunday morning

Can I dote myself with a cup of cappuccino & a sinful sweet of banana muffin with chocolate chips?

Just slow down path of my life, enjoy the moment of being alone.. ;)

Be grateful.. And appreciated with everything I had .

Sunday, April 29, 2012

28 & 29th Apr 2012

💏浪漫题刻的二人的约会

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Numbers

I use to play numbers daily & count other people money all together...
When after work, I also play numbers. I play another set of numbers..

Out of sudden, a friend popped a question to me "Ain't you feel bored with this number?"

Hmmm.. Have I ever thought of this question ?
I reply her "That's working life, else how we sustain?"

Just like old saying "You live to eat or Eat to live ?"
Same right? Maybe is IMO only...

Frankly speaking, I really didnt thought of this question before. Maybe I'm still new in this working life or kinda count as environment. Just feel working is totally different with study life. Boss paid to buy our time and we use time to exchange for paid.

Picture time

#01 Rilakuma for mummy. Hope he can replace me to company mum at home

#02 My childhood memory

#03 Home sweet home <3

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Lesson 2012

Be yourself & be honest !

Sunday, March 25, 2012

An apple or 2 apples

Which 1 would u choose?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

我们的2012

The birthday gal said tis pic look like our old school pic with a white board behind. Just like old school time.

Time passed too fast.. Blinked eye we all reach the middle ages of twenties. While married and get children is normal, attached still attached, single still single, dating just dating, new born come ... And etc etc..

This part of the process of growing up.. Ain't it?

In the process of growing, we should learn. Learn how to open our mind, think wider, forget and forgive, cherish the people around, appreciate everything that people had done to u, learn be more polite and manners. Because all of this will reflect in ur attitude and the environment.

Simple way to said is karma!

Thanks my friends for being there for me not matter what.
Thanks for the understanding when we had arguments.
Thanks for sharing problem and open ears..

Thanks to bf that 24/7 be there for me not matter what and everything.

Thanks for letting me to join in part of your life to learn be more mature and hold my hand together to growth.

Thanks to parents who always there to support me in silent mode.
Thanks for bringing me to this wonderful world to be your daughter.

Thanks to siblings who always take are me and teach many lesson in life in on of words or tease or 'bird' or whatever.

The 1 who I should thank you very much is the god that create this world. If not him , I will not able to have such a lot.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

An envelope

I need an envelope please..

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Cake pop

Last weekend me and friends attempt to make cake pop for our love as valentine present end up...

Let's the pic talk about the whole process


#1 Ingredients, Butter cake, chocolate, butter, sticks & sprinkles.

#2 Mix the butter cake and cream cheese together. (butter cake from cake shop not self-bake)


#3 melt the chocolate

#4 my home look = aunty look

#5 Mix well the cake with cream. Keep on press and press..

#6 Make the dough into circle look & freeze in freezer

#7 the 1st cake pop !

#8 the product till..suddenly 'pop' snd ...

#9 The pop cake fell down.. should be the chocolate prob & also cake.

#10 - One of the success cake pop.

The rest would be ...


#11 Totally FAILED!

#12 The sad & disappointment face..


Luckily still able keep 1 for my love. He very generous eat it although the taste is not very good and count totally failed .. But my love always said not matter what I cook he also will eat.
Muacks..

Thanks babe for the supporting !


#13 Babe open mouth

#14 Try it...


#15 enjoying baobei cake pop. :)